Dr. Nitu Gupta Varshney

Don't wish for less problems. Wish for more skills to solve it. We are living in world of uncertainty. The moment we finish one thing other one emerges. It is a chain process and endless too. So rather than thinking that we cannot handle all the things at once as we are tired of doing again and again, we should be efficient enough to handle all challenges in life. We need to be proactive in our approach and need to be more skillful. We need to develop a strategy to learn new things time to time that are necessary for our professional and personal growth. We need to in touch with what is going on around us.  This approach sure will lead us in a direction where we don't victimise ourselves but we develop our hidden and unpolished potential.

We all are different in every aspect. Not a single person is same to the other one in talking, thought process, perception and behaviour. So why do we judge about others so much? No doubt we have our own habits, likes and dislikes  it doest not means we should weigh others in same measuring frame. We should learn how to be  judgement free whether we like others or not . It is very true that making  judgement free life is next to impossible in the beginning because we are raised up this way  but we can atleast start  practicing  it . In this  process we first need to stop hating others  who  we meet and feel that their perspectives are different. We really need to start thinking from perspective of other person. We can start like things that are different from us . By practicing it we can go in positive direction in developing judgement free approach that is actually required to make our life more happier .

We make so many friends but there may be chance we don’t get anyone when we need them the most. There may be time when we think we are of no worth because we don’t have any true friend.  There may be time when you have so many friends but you feel lonely as your thoughts and moods don’t go with what your friends say. Why does this happen that sometimes we need someone to be with us and other time we need to be lonely for a while. Actually we don’t know how to be our own friend, because we don’t know how blissful is to sit alone being quiet, because we don’t know how beautiful it is to sit alone and reading a book, because we don’t know how beautiful is to play a piece of music in solitude, because we don’t know how magnificent is to watch sunrise and sunset sitting on a beach, because we don’t know how we can direct our purpose when we get that peaceful time. We look at being alone that something is wrong with us so we just want to be with others to get our true meani...